Friday, May 7, 2010
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
If you are beautiful...
If you are Confident...You are Beautiful...Then you can Love....And be Loved!
It all stems from us...the individual. Confidence in yourself, your ideas, and where you want to go in life is the main way to make sure you will never get taken advantage of or give into others ideas of what they want you to be. Too many times we lose ourselves when we get in relationships to be exactly what the other person wants us to be. Thinking it's the right way to go about making it work; for both people. What I find is that when there is someone who wants to change you, and you start letting them unconsciously, you start letting yourself go to succumb to what they want you to be, and you start becoming resentful. Resentment is the most subtle way to the demise of a relationship. All of a sudden you start becoming mad or sad all the time because this is not the person you want to be. And it shouldn't be the person they want to make you. Unfortunately they only realize it as do you,,, when it's too late. Like everyone always says,,, "You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first".
It all stems from us...the individual. Confidence in yourself, your ideas, and where you want to go in life is the main way to make sure you will never get taken advantage of or give into others ideas of what they want you to be. Too many times we lose ourselves when we get in relationships to be exactly what the other person wants us to be. Thinking it's the right way to go about making it work; for both people. What I find is that when there is someone who wants to change you, and you start letting them unconsciously, you start letting yourself go to succumb to what they want you to be, and you start becoming resentful. Resentment is the most subtle way to the demise of a relationship. All of a sudden you start becoming mad or sad all the time because this is not the person you want to be. And it shouldn't be the person they want to make you. Unfortunately they only realize it as do you,,, when it's too late. Like everyone always says,,, "You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first".
Sunday, May 2, 2010
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