Monday, July 12, 2010
My Zoom Zoom!
I've accomplished a lot of things in my life thus far. But this one tops all of 2010. My first Brand new car that I achieved all on my own was the most liberating thing I've ever experienced. It was and still is such a high that I don't believe this is apart of me now. My car. =) I am in a good place with things around me in my life, contributing to it, making me better, and I only feel it's gonna get better. Everyones telling me to give her a name. I'm not so sure. =) We'll see.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Monday, June 28, 2010
Sunglasses for the Summer
Women's "Carerra Stroke"
$105 on Overstock.com
Ray Ban $129
Gipsy by Carrera
$ 140 @ Bloomingdales
Ray Ban
$129
Panamerika by Carrera
$ 150 @ Bloomingdales
Let's Get em!
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Moving Forward
It always takes just that one last push to move away from something that's not good for you and start fresh somewhere else. I'm so excited to finally stop procrastinating and get everything in place for school in the upcoming Fall semester at Queens College. Everything happens in its due time and I think for me all the stars were aligned and now it just feels right where I'm at in life. As abruptly as things end it just makes room for good to come. My sister is my inspiring force for this nip procrastination in the butt attitude. Why wait for things to just happen to me. I need to go out and make them happen. Doing what feels right. Having fun...after all, tis Summer. Life is too short. Who wants to age prematurely. lol
Friday, May 7, 2010
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
If you are beautiful...
If you are Confident...You are Beautiful...Then you can Love....And be Loved!
It all stems from us...the individual. Confidence in yourself, your ideas, and where you want to go in life is the main way to make sure you will never get taken advantage of or give into others ideas of what they want you to be. Too many times we lose ourselves when we get in relationships to be exactly what the other person wants us to be. Thinking it's the right way to go about making it work; for both people. What I find is that when there is someone who wants to change you, and you start letting them unconsciously, you start letting yourself go to succumb to what they want you to be, and you start becoming resentful. Resentment is the most subtle way to the demise of a relationship. All of a sudden you start becoming mad or sad all the time because this is not the person you want to be. And it shouldn't be the person they want to make you. Unfortunately they only realize it as do you,,, when it's too late. Like everyone always says,,, "You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first".
It all stems from us...the individual. Confidence in yourself, your ideas, and where you want to go in life is the main way to make sure you will never get taken advantage of or give into others ideas of what they want you to be. Too many times we lose ourselves when we get in relationships to be exactly what the other person wants us to be. Thinking it's the right way to go about making it work; for both people. What I find is that when there is someone who wants to change you, and you start letting them unconsciously, you start letting yourself go to succumb to what they want you to be, and you start becoming resentful. Resentment is the most subtle way to the demise of a relationship. All of a sudden you start becoming mad or sad all the time because this is not the person you want to be. And it shouldn't be the person they want to make you. Unfortunately they only realize it as do you,,, when it's too late. Like everyone always says,,, "You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first".
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