Love is in the air for Dawn and Q. What's so endearing about watching these two in the beginning blooming stages of their relationship, is that we've all had those feelings once or twice or every time we get with a new person that's worth something. You watch them and either can't help but smile and say "I want that or have that",,or say,,"Wait, it won't last long". But what happens when the newness fades,,what I'm finding,,is that the LOVE, the real LOVE, grows stronger, but not by chance, by work. When the emotions of the grand fairy tale ideas don't necessarily come tru by story book standards, like always being swept off your feet, if you have true love, it exists in everything. It's not flowers and candy, gifts, dates, everyday sex. It's the appreciation that everyday you are able to be with that person and enjoy them for who they are, what they are giving to the relationship, and how they continue to grow, and how you continue to grow separate and together. Through trials and errors, through forgiveness and honesty, through good times and everyday times,,,,that's LOVE.
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
L.O.V.E on MTB4
Love is in the air for Dawn and Q. What's so endearing about watching these two in the beginning blooming stages of their relationship, is that we've all had those feelings once or twice or every time we get with a new person that's worth something. You watch them and either can't help but smile and say "I want that or have that",,or say,,"Wait, it won't last long". But what happens when the newness fades,,what I'm finding,,is that the LOVE, the real LOVE, grows stronger, but not by chance, by work. When the emotions of the grand fairy tale ideas don't necessarily come tru by story book standards, like always being swept off your feet, if you have true love, it exists in everything. It's not flowers and candy, gifts, dates, everyday sex. It's the appreciation that everyday you are able to be with that person and enjoy them for who they are, what they are giving to the relationship, and how they continue to grow, and how you continue to grow separate and together. Through trials and errors, through forgiveness and honesty, through good times and everyday times,,,,that's LOVE.
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Love is Relative
love IS relative
To each is own,,,,as they say. We should hold that statement true when dealing with love and individual relationships. Love is different in each situation. It's interesting how we try to help out our homies when they have an issue in their relationship, and we think we are helping and they do the total opposite. Or you've had friends cry on your shoulder about how they are gonna leave their significant other and you are like "yea" , "do it", "it's better for you", and two days later they have worked it out. Love is not logical or rational. It is a string of actions that leads a person to believe and feel a certain way that nothing and no one can come in between whether it's absolutely perfect or a bit abusive.
To each is own. No one can understand your love or how you love,,,well fully anyway. There is always something we keep to ourselves that we don't divulge so we aren't judged and so that we don't feel completely vulnerable. It's our own little defense mechanism I think. Speak truthfully, love freely, and hold no regrets.
love IS relative,,,
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